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Monday, December 10, 2012

Going on

Falling...

When our toddlers fell, we encouraged them with "up-i-do" or "you're ok"-never making a big fuss and simply encouraging them to get up and go on.

Two days ago the kids dad said to me- "I get knocked down, I get up again" in response to my rumblings about life.

My response was a weary-"I'm old and tired, not as tough as I used to be".

Falling...

When our children fell, we brushed them off bandaged them up and let them know we were there, encouraging them to get up and go on.

Yesterday I fell off my bike. Completely my own fault and with 5 miles left in a 28 mile bike ride I was left with plenty of time to reflect on the fall. As I worked to finish the ride, I was struck with the reminder of how accurately that fall parallelled my life.

Often I find myself biting off more than I can chew, entering into something with grand intentions, or plain old making a "wrong-way" type of decision. Mid way through any of these situations comes the flood of realization that I will fall, and it will hurt. So then what?...lay there, ask for help, brush myself off and keep going-ignore the hurt?

Stubborn genes run strong in my family and I almost always take the brush myself off and keep going/ignore the hurt kind of route.

Falling...

When our teens "fell" we reminded them "everyone falls-learn from it" and encouraged them to learn, grow and get up and go on.

Today I was told- "Everyone needs help sometimes".  Do I learn from my falls-or do I keep doing the same thing?

In learning, shouldn't I learn when to brush myself off and get up and when it's ok to ask for help?